By Susan Noynay Griggs
We both could not do anything about our intertwined paths, although we tried and attempted to go on separate ways. We continued getting back to each other and realized that we were not solving the problems, we were just making the problems worse. We did not love each other obviously in the beginning; we were both just lying to each other. We did care though for one another and were happy when we found out that we were having our first baby. We fought for the first year of our marriage until our second and third one. Ten years later, I realized we loved each other, but it was really a situation where we learned to love one another after ten years of being together. He was a great loving father.